Coffee, Conversation & Buying a Home: Five Questions Worth Asking
By Jennifer Burden & Carren Shagley | Top 1% San Francisco Real Estate Agents

Buying a home comes with plenty of questions. Some arrive while scrolling through listings late at night. Others come after an open house, when you find yourself wondering, “Could this actually work for us?”

That is one reason we enjoy our neighborhood coffee hours at Bello Coffee & Tea in Glen Park. They offer a relaxed place to talk about real estate, get to know our neighbors, and make room for questions that deserve more than a quick answer.

This week, we're putting buyers in the spotlight. Here are five questions worth bringing to the table—whether you're beginning your search, returning to the market, or simply thinking ahead.

1. “Should I buy now—or wait?”

If only the perfect moment came with a calendar invitation!

We recommend starting with your own circumstances. How long do you expect to stay? Is your current home meeting your needs? Can you comfortably manage the costs of owning?

Interest rates matter, but so do the home, the neighborhood, and your plans. Waiting can give you time to build savings or clarify what you want. Buying can make sense when the right property fits a budget you can sustain.

We encourage buyers to work with a lender on today's numbers. A future refinance may be possible, but you should never assume it when making a purchase.

If you're beginning your search, our home-buying process guide walks you through the steps from planning to getting the keys.

Our takeaway: The right time begins with being ready, financially and personally.

2. “Do I really need a 20% down payment?”

Not necessarily. Some loan programs allow smaller down payments, depending on your qualifications and the property. However, putting less down can affect your monthly payment and may add mortgage insurance.

The down payment is also only part of the picture. You'll need to account for closing costs and leave yourself room for moving, maintenance, and unexpected expenses.

Ask your lender to compare options side by side. What would you pay each month? How much cash would you need to close? How much savings would remain afterward? Include property taxes, insurance, and any association dues when thinking about your overall budget.

Our mortgage calculator can help you explore payment estimates; ask your lender to confirm the full costs for your circumstances. For a closer look at loan terms, closing costs, and cash needed to close, use the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau's Loan Estimate explainer.

Our takeaway: A comfortable purchase budget includes life after you get the keys.

3. “Is the asking price what the seller expects to get?”

The asking price gives us a starting point. It doesn't tell us everything about a property's value or the seller's expectations.

Rather than automatically adding a percentage—or assuming there is room for a discount—we look at comparable sales, the property's condition, location, ownership type, and buyer interest.

Two homes with similar asking prices can call for very different offers. One might attract several buyers. Another might offer an opportunity to negotiate. The details matter.

Before making an offer, we want you to understand both the evidence behind the price and your own comfort level.

Our takeaway: Use good information to decide what a home is worth to you, and set a clear limit.

4. “What's the difference between a condo, a TIC, and a co-op?”

They can look surprisingly similar during an open house. The differences start with the ownership structure.

With a condo, you generally own your unit and an interest in the common areas. With a tenancy in common, or TIC, you own a share of the property, and an agreement sets out the occupancy arrangements. With a co-op, you typically own shares in a corporation that give you the right to occupy a particular home.

Those distinctions can affect financing, responsibilities, building rules, and the purchase process. We encourage buyers to understand the structure and review the relevant documents before deciding whether a property fits their needs.

For a fuller comparison, read our San Francisco guide to condos, TICs, and co-ops.

Our takeaway: Fall in love with the home—and understand what you're buying.

5. “What should I look for in the disclosures?”

A beautiful kitchen is easy to appreciate. An inspection report takes a little more attention.

Disclosures help you understand what is known about a property. We encourage buyers to read them carefully, ask follow-up questions, and discuss where additional inspections or professional advice would help.

For an older San Francisco home, questions might involve the foundation, roof, electrical systems, water intrusion, or past work. In a building with an association, you should also review the budget, reserves, meeting minutes, insurance, and planned projects.

We also discuss offer contingencies and what the proposed terms would mean for your opportunity to investigate. Reviewing a disclosure package is part of the process; it won't answer every possible question.

The California Department of Real Estate's information for homebuyers offers a helpful overview of disclosures and documents to review.

Our takeaway: The goal is to understand the home, the responsibilities, and the uncertainties before committing.

Have a question of your own? Let's talk.

You don't need to be ready to buy or sell to start a conversation. Whether you're exploring the San Francisco market, planning a future move, or simply curious about your neighborhood, we're happy to help.

Have more questions? Contact our team or explore our home-buying guide for helpful insights as you plan your next move. We'd love to hear from you!

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